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What is an Adoption Process and How do I Get Started with AC of Missouri? 

By Samantha Bradley

Adoption is an emotional journey that touches the lives of individuals and families in profound ways. It’s a process filled with hope and the promise of creating loving bonds for the birth mother, child, and adoptive family. In Missouri, ethical adoption agencies like Adoption Choices of Missouri play a crucial role in guiding and supporting you, the birth mother, through this journey. Giving a child up for adoption may feel overwhelming at first, and that’s why our agency is here to help you in every step of the process. Know that you have a voice and say in your life as well as your baby’s.

What is Adoption?

At its core, adoption is the legal process of permanently placing a child with a family other than the child’s biological parents. It’s an act of love and selflessness that provides a child with a stable, nurturing home. For a birth mother looking at options for unplanned pregnancy, adoption proves an ethical route to take. However, putting a baby up for adoption intimidates many birth mothers like you. You may be wondering: will I have a say in what happens to my baby? How will I support myself with an unplanned pregnancy

Beginning the Process of Adoption in Missouri

Embarking on the adoption journey is a monumental decision, but you don’t have to go through with it alone. If you work with our agency, you can rest assured that you are fully involved with pre-adoption support, family matching, legal guidance, and post-adoption assistance. We are here to offer compassionate support, expert guidance, and a clear path forward. But before you decide to begin the process, let’s outline every step so you know what to expect.

Five Steps to the Adoption Process

1. Initial Consultation

Your adoption journey begins with a free first consultation with Adoption Choices of Missouri. During this first meeting with a counselor, you can discuss your hopes, concerns, and questions about adoption. Our agency will provide valuable information about the adoption process, including financial and medical assistance we can offer you and what kind of adoption (open, closed, semi-open) you’d like to go through with. When considering adoption, this first step can give you a clear idea of what will happen with you and your baby.

2. Pre-adoption Support

Once you’ve decided to proceed with adoption, our agency will be there for your comprehensive pre-adoption support. You will be matched with a counselor who will assist you with completing necessary paperwork, looking through family profiles, and deciding what specific support you will need. Our agency can help with finances, housing, healthcare, and more. After discussing all of this, your counselor will work with you to create a concise adoption plan.

For birth mothers, completing the adoption plan is a huge milestone in the adoption journey. The document will outline your preferences and wishes regarding the type of adoptive family you envision for your child and the level of openness you desire. Your counselor will be there for personalized guidance to complete the plan, and you can be reassured that your voice is heard and your wishes are respected.

3. Family Matching

Our agency facilitates the process of matching prospective adoptive families with children in need of loving homes. Using a thoughtful approach, they consider factors such as the adoptive family’s preferences, the child’s needs, and the potential for a strong emotional connection. Our goal is to create mutually beneficial matches for you, the birth mother, and the adoptive family. We strive to lay the foundation for lifelong relationships.

4. Legal Guidance

Navigating the legal aspects of adoption can be tricky, but Adoption Choices of Missouri is here to help. We will work with you to complete legal documents, go over state adoption laws, and ensure that all legal requirements are met. Your counselor will make the legal process a breeze, allowing you to focus on staying healthy and building a connection with the adoptive parents.

5. Post-Placement Assistance

Even after the adoption is finalized, our adoption services don’t come to a stop. Our agency will remain committed to supporting you and your baby. We offer a range of post-placement services, including counseling, mediation between you and the adoptive parents, and health and financial help. Whether you have questions about parenting or simply need someone to talk to, your counselor is always here for you.

Deciding to Go for Adoption

Adoption is a journey filled with hope, love, and the promise of new beginnings. With a local adoption agency like Adoption Choices of Missouri, you can take on the journey with confidence, support, and compassion. From your first consultation to the post-placement, we will provide unwavering support and guidance. It’s our passion that every child finds their forever home. So if you’re looking for pregnant help, let us be your trusted partner.