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Why You Should Consider An Adoptive Family Of A Different Race 

Why You Should Consider An Adoptive Family Of A Different Race 

Adoption Choices of Missouri understands that there is a lot of stress and uncertainty regarding choosing the right form of adoption. It can seem like the options are endless from open adoption, closed adoption, single-parent adoption, or multiracial adoption. Each choice comes with its own joys and obstacles to face. However, if you are reading this as a birth mother looking to put your child up for adoption, considering a multiracial adoption scenario can offer so many benefits that are not often discussed. Here is why you should consider placing your child into a multiracial adoptive family.

Encourage A Diverse Household Through Multiracial Adoption

The thought of placing your child in a household that has a family of another race can seem intimidating, especially if you are a minority race considering a predominantly white household. As the birth mother, you may fear that your child will have their racial identity be ignored or forgotten. You may also worry that a family of another race won’t understand your child in the same way as someone who comes from the same racial or cultural background. These are normal worries, and it’s okay to have concerns when considering a multiracial adoption. Having your child be raised in a multiracial setting can be a beautiful opportunity for the encouragement of diversity. This starts with exploring the possibilities and benefits of adoption in Missouri

Get Support From Adoption Choices of Missouri 

Adoption Choices of Missouri is a local adoption agency that has representatives who are ready to assist you throughout the entire adoption process, from beginning pregnancy stages all the way to post-birth. Choosing the right adoptive family can be hard, especially when you are considering transracial adoption. You want to pick a family that is ready to welcome a child of another race and cultural background, acknowledge and represent the child’s diversity, and have people who accept a multiracial family. Representatives can help ensure your child is placed with the best family. If you’re in an open adoption scenario, representatives can help prepare you by having you meet and discuss with potential adoptive families what you want for your child in a multiracial adoption. You can discuss the importance of the child having his racial identity, acknowledging their diversity, and having them be surrounded by a community that encourages their differences. You can also use this time to educate the adoptive family about appropriately implementing and educating the child’s culture into their family. 

Be Open To All Adoptive Families 

Trying to limit your adoptive family options to only families of the same race can create a limiting experience and can take away opportunities to give your child the most ideal home. There are so many families who are ready to expand, care for, and love a child regardless of their race. Family does not need to be defined by skin color or blood, but rather by people who accept and love everybody’s differences. 

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

AllieMeet the Author: Allie Nowak is in her senior year of undergrad at Illinois State University studying public relations, with a minor in health & wellness coaching. She is extremely passionate about writing, digital content creating, and all things related to lifestyle & wellness. In her free time, she enjoys serving as editor-in-chief and publishing articles for her university’s chapter of Her Campus, the nation’s largest media platform for college women. You can also find her spending time with friends and family, traveling, reading, and walking her two golden doodles. She currently lives in the Northwest suburbs of Chicago where she was born and raised.