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Choosing Adoption in Your 30’s as a Pregnant Woman in Missouri

Choosing Adoption in Your 30’s as a Pregnant Woman in Missouri

We are often taught that our age determines some of our important life choices. While this is true on rare occasions, it is certainly not always the case. If you are in your 30s and are facing an unexpected pregnancy, adoption is absolutely still a choice you can make.

If you are choosing adoption in your 30s as a pregnant woman in Missouri, Adoption Choices of Missouri can provide you with the information and support you need. While your adoption journey will be unique to you, there are some common steps you will take to begin on your Missouri adoption path.

Making a Firm Decision to Choose Adoption 

Like all adoption journeys, yours will begin with a confident decision to choose adoption for your child. If you have supportive friends and family in your life, it can be helpful to talk through this decision with them. If you need some outside support as well, the staff at Adoption Choices of Missouri are always available to go over your options with you.

Because adoption is a life-changing choice, it is important that you educate yourself as much as possible. Placing your baby for adoption can have many benefits for both you and your child. It might let you focus on personal career goals, relieve financial tensions or provide a stable home for your child. Depending on where you are in your 30s, it can also be helpful to consider whether you want to have children in the future. If this will likely be your last opportunity to birth a child, you might want to include this in the discussions you have with your support team.

Schedule an Initial Meeting with Our Adoption Agency 

After you choose to place your baby for adoption, your next step is to schedule an initial meeting with our adoption agency. During this meeting you will meet our welcoming staff and have the opportunity to ask questions or voice concerns you may have about the adoption process. You will also be matched with an adoption caseworker who will be your support and guide throughout your adoption journey.

Create an Adoption Plan 

Like most aspects of life, it is important to have a plan when you embark upon your adoption path. Your adoption caseworker will help you create an adoption plan that fits your own individual needs. Adoption plans eliminate any surprises or guesswork along the way and ensure you a smooth and comfortable adoption journey.

When creating your adoption plan you will be able to consider the details of your adoption journey. You can make a hospital plan, detailing who you’d like to have in the delivery room with you and what items you will bring to make yourself feel safe and comfortable. You will also decide on the type of adoption that you wish to have. Your adoption caseworker can educate you around your available options.

Select an Adoptive Family 

One of the most important steps in your adoption journey will be selecting your child’s adoptive family. Your adoption caseworker will help you look through our extensive available family portfolios. Once you select a family that seems like a good match, you will have the opportunity to speak to them on the phone before meeting them in person. If, at any point, you should change your mind, the decision of whether or not to move forward in the selection process remains with you.

Choosing Adoption in Your 30s as a Pregnant Woman in Missouri 

Adoption is a choice that is available to birth mothers of any age. If you decide that you cannot raise a child, adoption can be a positive decision for you and your baby. At Adoption Choices of Missouri, our top priority is to make your adoption journey as smooth as possible. We are here to provide you with the information and support you need to feel confident in your choices and throughout your adoption journey.

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 1-816-527-9800

Meet the Author: Molly Doyle is a native San Franciscan, Molly is an experienced educator and a dedicated writer. She holds her multiple subject teaching credential as well as her Masters of Arts in Teaching. When not teaching children or creating new written pieces, Molly can be found kicking around a soccer ball, going for urban hikes or whipping up a fruit pie.

She currently lives in Seattle, her first home outside of California.