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Benefits of Transracial Adoption for Birth Mothers in Missouri

Love is truly a rainbow. A spectrum of all colors and hues that the eye can see. It takes shape in many forms and sometimes can be found in the most unlikely of places. We will not deny that having a transracial adoptive family comes with its own set of unique obstacles and challenges, but the advantages and benefits from it make it all the more worth it.

Adoption Choices of Missouri has some insight on what makes transracial adoptive families so special, and the many, many rewards it offers to both child and birth mother.

Diversity is Important in a Home with Transracial Adoption

The world is such a colorful place. One filled with so many stories, traditions, and customs that are carried by the people in it. Exposure or in the least, acknowledgement of these differences in people helps broaden the mind of both your child and the transracial adoptive family you’ve placed him or her in the care of.

Be it in a closed or open adoption, there is an exchange of history and culture when a baby is placed in a transracial home. Everything from their skin color to how they walk, the clothes they wear, the music they listen to, is now added to your own life as well. When having this exchange of culture, you may have opportunities to broaden your own horizons on some things that you enjoy and, potentially, venture into new adventures.

A multiracial and multicultural home makes it all the easier to embrace those said differing traditions or customs. The early exposure of these differences is great for a child’s identity, and knowing that the world is so big and that the lives leading it are even bigger. It eliminates any possibility of developing stereotypes or prejudice when children learn about its beauty.

Those negative emotions being deterred are just one of many benefits of transracial adoption that both child and birth mother are given in the adoption journey.

Diversity in the Home Teaches Empathy with Transracial Adoption

It would be wrong to deny a child the conversation about race. It would be wrong to deliberately avoid the discussion that needs to be had in regard to racial or societal injustices that marginalized groups face on a daily basis. The challenges people have endured not only in our own community, but also around the world, is a lesson within itself that anyone can take and learn from.

Taking the time to acknowledge those struggles teaches you and your child that there are certainly some privileges others face that look like you, and they may be disadvantages to others who do not — and vice versa. Children are naturally curious and inquisitive. They want to know why things are the way they are. They want to know the history of things, and how they got to where they are now. The empathy comes when they are given the hard truth and stories of adversity marginalized groups have faced over the course of several years, and what those same groups are doing to improve their livelihood.

The benefits of transracial adoption not only challenges your perspective on how you see the world, but also opens doors in how you can positively impact those around you. The first step is educating yourself and learning the reality of things. When doing so, your empathy and understanding of that reality grows. You learn how to combat those same prejudices certain races and people face everyday.

Transracial Adoption Bridges and Networks Different Communities

One of the core foundations of a loving home and a pillar of the adoption community is unity. During the adoption process, birth mothers are reminded that they are the key in creating families. That they wield the power of putting their child in a loving and healthy home, even if it is not with them. Such a selfless act of love like that alone is enough to bring peoples and worlds together that were separate at one point.

You shatter and break the stigma of having multiracial homes and become part of the force to make it the norm, and not something to be feared. Placing your baby in a transracial adoptive family brings so many chances of new connections that you never would’ve thought of.

Those connections can be anything from trying different culturally available foods, experiencing and listening to different world wide artists from across the globe, or even taking the time to deep-dive into places outside of your own comfort zone. The benefits of transracial adoption gives so many chances to forge new links and make new relationships that reach different people.

The Benefits of Transracial Adoption

Do not be afraid to go beyond your own race when placing your baby into the care of another family. The bottom line, and the most important thing of all, is for your child to be raised happily and healthy. That’s what matters — not skin color.

For all things adoption, find us here and let’s get started on your adoption plan.

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 1-816-527-9800

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Growing up, Alexander had the privilege of having both parents in his life and a stable upbringing in which he was surrounded by family and friends. He believes that much of his family foundation is built on faith which has given him a discipline and practice that has allowed him to discover and build his spiritual self. He is also interested in politics and worldly news that allows him to excel in American literature, philosophy/ethics, and higher learning.

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