Teen Pregnancy Is Not That Different From A Normal Pregnancy

October 29, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

Teen Pregnancy Is Not That Different From A Normal Pregnancy

When it comes to teen pregnancy, there are not too many differences from a normal pregnancy. You still have the same options as other birth mothers. You can go with parenting, termination of your pregnancy, or adoption. Here at Adoption Choices of Missouri, we will help you work through your options so you can decide what you think is the best one for you.

Going With Adoption For Teen Pregnancy Has Its Benefits

If you decide to go with the Missouri adoption process, our staff will help guide you through the process and support you in any way that we can. We have experience working with birth mothers who are experiencing a teen pregnancy, so we are prepared to help you the best way that we can. You will go through the same adoption process as any other birth mother we work with here at Adoption Choices of Missouri. You will work with your adoption caseworker through the adoption process. It is important to us that you know that you are in control of your Missouri adoption plan. You and you alone will make every decision made regarding your adoption plan. Your caseworker is simple here to provide you with all the information you need throughout the adoption process and answer any questions you may have about the process.

How Can An Open Adoption Help You?

Deciding to work with us here at Adoption Choices of Missouri means that you will have an open or private adoption. Birth mothers who have gone through the adoption process for a teen pregnancy have talked about how this type of adoption has helped them heal and get back to normal life. With this type of adoption, you get to decide on the adoptive family and your communication with the family and your baby. If you were to go with a corporate adoption agency, you would have no say in what adoptive family your baby goes to, and you would have no contact with your baby and the adoptive family. Birth mothers have said that having a connection with the adoptive family and communicating with them and watching their baby grow up has helped them heal and feel good about the adoption process.

Now the type of adoption plan you have is up to you. You can decide on open adoption, semi-open adoption, or closed adoption. We do encourage you to have some openness with your adoption plan, but it is completely up to you. Just because you choose one type of adoption plan, that does not mean that you can not change it at any time. Some adoption plans start out as open adoptions and change to closed adoptions and vice versa.

Other Ways We Can Help With Your Adoption Journey

Here at Adoption Choices of Missouri, we can help you in other ways during this time as well. Just because you are a teen and pregnant does not mean you will not receive the same help and support as other birth mothers who work with us. We can help you out financially if you are in a tight financial situation. We can help you with groceries and help you find an affordable doctor for your appointments during your pregnancy. Another thing that we can help you with is finding a suitable living environment. If your current living environment is not ideal, then we can help you find an affordable place to live where you can have a comfortable environment and be stress-free. We know that this is a difficult time for you, and that is why we also offer free counseling. You can make an appointment at any time. We provide these counseling services because we think that it is important that you have good mental health and that you are in a good headspace during this time.

Adoption Choices of Missouri Is Here For You!

Adoption Choices of Missouri is a fully functional adoption in MO center that can help pregnant teens like you. We will help you create an adoption plan that you think is best for you and your unborn baby. Even though you are a teen, we think it is very important that you create an adoption plan you want. Our staff is here to help guide you through the process by providing you with the information you need to create your adoption plan, and we will answer any questions you have about the adoption process.

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

Meet the Author: Nickolas Cooney is a senior at Arizona State University working through his final semester to get his bachelor’s degree in Sports Journalism. Nick also attended the University of Alabama for his first year and a half of college when he was a biology major. He decided to move back to Arizona and transfer to ASU when he changed his major because he saw more opportunities at the Walter Cronkite School of Mass Communication and Journalism. Since transferring to ASU, Nick has been a reporter for the AIA in Arizona for a semester and worked with the Phoenix Suns and Rising for stories.

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Choosing Adoption in Missouri: Being In A Domestic Violent, Abusive Relationship

October 27, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

Choosing Adoption in Missouri: Being In A Domestic Violent, Abusive Relationship

If you are in an abusive relationship, know you are not alone, and there is help. If you have an unplanned pregnancy, you are not alone, and help is here. If you are in both these situations, know Adoption Choices of Missouri is here for you. We understand this can all be confusing and difficult; we want to be by your side, supporting you. We know that choosing adoption might seem difficult given your current situation, but just know that we at Adoption Choices of Missouri are ready to help you in any way possible.

Domestic Violence Aid: 9-1-1

If you find yourself pregnant and in a domestic, violent, abusive relationship, know that you are not alone. You can always call 9-1-1 whenever you feel you are in danger. If you are unable to speak candidly with the 9-1-1 operator, you can always speak in code, such as asking for a pizza and being insistent on needing that pizza at your address as soon as possible. A smart operator will understand what you need and send help as soon as possible.

If you need to use non-verbal communication, there are options for dialing 9-1-1, which can be found on many domestic violence advocacy sites. Many of these sites are built so you can leave quickly if you are afraid of being watched and if you feel it is necessary.

Domestic Violence: Missouri Women’s Shelters

Suppose you need to be in protective custody for yourself, your baby, and any other children you may have. In that case, you can contact a Missouri women’s shelter, such as the Missouri Coalition Against Domestic Violence. There is often free legal aid through these centers if you need assistance gaining a restraining order or protective order. Remember, there is nothing wrong with asking for help. We know this is scary, but you do not need to live in fear.

In An Abusive Relationship? Know You Are Not Alone

If you are in an abusive relationship, what you need to know, above all, is it is not your fault. Some people have their own demons that they take out on others and use violence to cope. That does not excuse what they do by any means. You need to know that regardless of what they do, you do not deserve it. You do not deserve to be hurt by someone who is supposed to love you. No one deserves to be hurt that way.

Unplanned Pregnancy

If you are in a domestic violence situation and are now unexpectedly pregnant, you have options. If you do not wish to terminate your pregnancy or raise your child yourself, whether it be in the situation you are currently in or not, you can always choose to place your baby up for adoption. Adoption Choices of Missouri is a great organization that can help you look through and examine your options.

Placing Your Baby Up For Adoption In Missouri

If you choose to place your baby up for adoption, your Missouri adoption agency can help you find somewhere safe to stay throughout and following your pregnancy. Your agency can also help you with any financial issues, such as utilities, rent, and medical expenses during your pregnancy.

Missouri Adoption: Medical & Mental Health Aid

If you need medical care during your pregnancy, your caseworker can help with this too. This applies to your mental health, as well as your physical health. Whether you need counseling help due to your living situation, postpartum depression, or adoption, help is here. Your assigned caseworker can offer on-site aid or off-site aid from therapists we have relationships with nearby.

Missouri Adoption: Legal Aid

Your assigned caseworker can connect you with a legal representative for anything adoption-related or related to your abusive relationship. Besides restraining orders, your legal aid and caseworker can help you look into removing your partner’s rights to your child or in asking them to agree to place your baby up for adoption.

Missouri Adoption & An Abusive Relationship

If you are in a domestically violent relationship, remember there is help. Emergency services and Missouri Women’s Shelters are great resources if you need immediate help. Adoption Choices of Missouri is also available to help you. We are ready to help you with your unplanned pregnancy and help you do whatever you think is best for you and your baby. We will treat your situation, your baby, and you with the utmost respect and care. You can trust us to handle your case with love and care. Contact us today and know that you will be in great hands.

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

Meet the author: Carly is a recent graduate of Connecticut College with a dual degree in Psychology and Italian Studies. Graduating Cum Laude with honors in both Psychology and Italian departments, Carly has a background in gender-related research through the Connecticut College Psychology Department and Honors Theses Program. When not trying to figure out life or working, Carly is reading historical fiction novels or playing with her black cat, Isabelle.

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Adoption After You’ve Been Sexually Assaulted in Missouri

October 25, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

Adoption After You’ve Been Sexually Assaulted in Missouri

If you’ve been sexually assaulted and are facing an unwanted pregnancy, you may feel lost, confused, and angry right now. All of these emotions are valid. It’s important to know that you have options, and Adoption Choices of Missouri is here to help you make the best decision for you and your unborn child, even if you are choosing adoption after being sexually assaulted in MO. According to the Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network, every 68 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted. These numbers are staggering, but please know, you are not alone.

What are my Options after Sexual Assault?

You have three options regarding your unborn child after sexual assault: parenting, termination of pregnancy, or adoption. Making a decision like this may seem daunting, but that’s what Adoption Choices of Missouri is here for.

Choosing to Parent Your Child

While choosing to parent your child may be difficult initially, it could be the best option for you and your situation. If you desire to be a parent and the support of your friends and family, choosing to parent may be your best option. No one is suggesting that it will be easy to care for your assailant’s child, but there are plenty of mothers who do decide to keep their babies. The most important thing is that you decide you are comfortable with it, and if parenting isn’t an option for you, which is perfectly okay, there are other courses of action you can take.

Terminating Your Pregnancy

It is legal to terminate your pregnancy up to 22 weeks in Missouri or more if the woman’s life is in jeopardy. There is a 72 hour waiting period before the procedure. This may be the best option for you if you cannot possibly fathom raising or carrying your assailant’s child. Terminating a pregnancy is a completely viable option for an unwanted pregnancy, especially if you are a victim of rape. In Missouri, your husband or boyfriend can’t interfere with your decision to terminate your pregnancy.

Adoption is Always an Option

Adoption is also a great choice. Adoption allows you to give another family the gift of either starting or expanding their family. We have adoption advisors who are ready to assist you during every step of the adoption process. Adoption Choices of Missouri will help you with pregnancy expenses, including rent, food, transportation, and maternity clothing. In addition, we will ensure you are receiving sufficient medical care; nothing is more important than your and your baby’s health during this delicate time. We aid you in developing an Missouri adoption plan that is specific to you. Your adoption plan will include your birth plan, choosing who will adopt your baby, and who you want present during your labor. After determining your financial needs, we’ll focus on matching you and your baby with the right family and the type of adoption you want. The three most common types of adoption are open, semi-open, and closed. The type of adoption in MO you choose will dictate how much or how little communication is exchanged between you and the adoptive family. One of the last steps in this process is giving birth. Your adoption counselor will act as your advocate during labor and delivery. Finally, you will have to give your consent for the adoption, and the baby will leave the hospital with their new family. In addition to all the other services we provide, we will also guarantee that you receive support counseling. Our support counseling can be one-on-one therapy or group therapy. We sometimes offer birth mother retreats that allow you to connect with other birth moms. Birth mother retreats foster friendship and community and reminds you that you are not alone.

How Adoption Choices of Missouri Can Help You

Adoption is one of the best decisions you can make if you are facing an unwanted pregnancy, particularly if your child was conceived due to sexual assault. You give your baby the opportunity to have a family and a chance at a better life. We understand that this process can be scary, which is why we try to make it as easy as we possibly can. Being a victim of sexual assault is difficult in and of itself. At Adoption Choices of Missouri, we are here to help if you decide that adoption is the right choice for you.

If you or someone you know has been a victim of a sexual assault, here are a few resources you can call outside of our agency:

National Sexual Assault Hotline: Call 800.656.HOPE
National Sexual Assault Online Chat and list of resources can be found here
MOCSA Crisis Line: (816) 531-0233 or (913) 642-0233

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800 Meet the Author: Rayna Batiste is an alumna of the University of West Florida with a bachelor’s degree in Creative Writing. Having graduated with honors, she hopes to attend graduate school at New York University, majoring in Journalism. Rayna is also a United States Air Force veteran who enjoys watching documentaries about pretty much any subject, learning, and spending quality time with her family and friends. She is also a fitness enthusiast and an avid Peloton user. Her hobbies include brunch (yes, brunch is a hobby), fashion, makeup, and of course, reading and writing. Rayna has a real passion for the written word and correct grammar and syntax. She enjoys manipulating sentence structure and experimenting with punctuation in her writing. She’s what you would call a “werd nerd.” She was also recently featured at the Pensacola Museum of Art for her work, entitled Triangular Geometry.

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Can I Change my Mind if I Give my Baby up for Adoption in Missouri?

October 22, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

Can I Change my Mind if I Give my Baby up for Adoption in Missouri?

One of the top questions we receive from pregnant women and birth mothers is “Can I change my mind if I give my baby up for adoption?” Through the adoption process a woman 100% has the right to change her mind. Once she signs the consent to adoption, which relinquishes parental rights, she can no longer change her mind. Adoption Choices of Missouri prides ourselves on providing birth mothers across the state with the resources and information you need to have a successful adoption. Facing an unplanned pregnancy and considering options can be confusing and overwhelming. We are here to help!

Why would a Birth Mother Change Her Mind about Adoption?

There are many reasons why a birth mother might reconsider going forward with putting her baby up for adoption in MO. Some women find themselves growing too attached to their unborn baby in the womb or in the period of time between the birth of their child and the finalization of the adoption process. For others, the circumstances that led them to adoption in the first place might be changing for the better. Maybe she has found herself in a better financial situation or a safer environment. Perhaps the birth father or family support system is now onboard with helping raise the baby. No matter the reason, a woman who considers and pursues adoption is not locked in until it is finalized.

Disrupted Adoption in Missouri

When a woman terminates an adoption after being matched with an adoptive family, it is often referred to as a ‘disrupted adoption’. Disrupted adoptions can be painful for the adoptive family and the birth mother. Adoptive parents and birth mothers place a great deal of trust in each other when deciding on adoption. The adoptive family will feel a great sense of loss while the birth mother will likely feel a great sense of guilt. We have to consider what is best for that child; wounds heal.

Working with a Licensed Adoption Agency in Missouri

When disruptions do occur, it is most often the result of a lack of counseling and conversation with pregnant women. Working with a licensed adoption agency in Arizona can help prevent adoption disruptions. Our counselors work with birth mothers and help them navigate the realities of parenting. We aren’t here to convince her what to do or sway her decision one way or another. We do however provide information and resources to make the best decision for herself and her situation.

During pregnancy, there are a range of emotions a woman may be experiencing, all of which make it difficult to make the right decision. Becoming a parent, no matter how much someone wants to, may or may not be the right choice. The best thing to do is to be prepared with as much information as possible, seek support for the decision, and understand that this is a tough decision to make. Even on the right path, there will be moments of doubt.

We offer our counseling services and support 24/7, and each birth mother is assigned a licensed adoption specialist who is on her case from beginning to end. Our social workers truly understand the concerns, the needs, and the hopes of each woman we work with. This support leads to better treatment of birth mothers, more successful adoptions, and fewer adoption disruptions. We are ready to provide the unplanned pregnancy help that you deserve!

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

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Newborn Adoption vs. Infant Adoption in Missouri

October 20, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

Newborn Adoption vs. Infant Adoption

If you are a woman facing an unplanned pregnancy or you have recently had a baby but you feel parenting is not the right choice for you, you may be considering adoption in MO and whether it is the right decision for you and your baby. If you are wondering what newborn adoption vs. infant adoption is, we can help! It is important to note that not all adoptions are newborns, but sometimes, older children too (infants and toddlers). Regardless of the age, if you feel that parenting is not an option, adoption in Missouri is a great choice for your baby, YOU, and the adoptive family who wants to start or expand their family.

If you are thinking about making an adoption plan for your unborn, newborn, or infant/toddler, our Missouri adoption center, Adoption Choices of Missouri is here to help as you consider all of your options!

Newborn Adoption in MO

Newborn adoption usually happens after the birth of your baby at the hospital where he or she is born. If you are thinking about newborn adoption as a good choice for you and your baby, you can create an adoption plan and agreement while you are still pregnant or soon after birth. Birth mothers who choose to place their baby for newborn adoption may feel at ease as they typically have finalized their decision and adoption plan before giving birth. This allows birth mothers to not worry about the future of their child, especially if it is an unplanned pregnancy. More time can be focused on being healthy and having a safe delivery. A birth mother may or may not have communication with the adoptive family before or after birth, depending on the level of openness agreed upon in the adoption plan.

If you are an adoptive family interested and planning on newborn adoption, you will need to complete a few essential steps that Adoption Choices of Missouri can help you with. From an application, to a home study and placement, these are all part of the adoption journey. Newborn adoption will likely happen at the hospital and the baby will likely be under a month old once he or she is officially placed with you.

Infant Adoption in MO

Infant adoption is when a birth mother places her baby for adoption who is between birth and twelve months old. A birth mother’s decision to place her baby for infant adoption is completely valid for any reason, personal, and the choice she makes is for the best for her baby and herself. Sometimes, a birth mother may lose the emotional and financial support she had when her baby was born and can no longer provide for her baby. Maybe a birth mother and her partner or spouse are no longer together, making it difficult to raise their baby alone. It is important to remember that a birth mother’s commitment to placing her baby for adoption is a responsible one. Additionally, a birth mother who knows she can’t be there for her baby in all ways, and realizes adoption is a great choice for the future of her baby and herself, is a selfless decision that takes a lot of trust and courage.

If you are a birth mother and have taken the first step in deciding to place your baby for adoption, you can contact our adoption center to begin establishing an adoption plan. It is completely normal to have questions all throughout the adoption process, and we want to work with you to make sure that placing your baby for adoption is a good experience for everyone involved.

As a birth mother, you will get to meet a birth parent counselor to discuss your options, including if you want to choose the parents who will adopt your baby. Also, you can decide whether you want it to be an open adoption, semi-open adoption or closed adoption agreement. You can do what you are comfortable with when it comes to the level of openness in the adoption plan. The transition you will go through after placing your baby for adoption will take time and we are here to provide you with support as you comprehend the choice you made.

Adoption with a Licensed Missouri Adoption Agency

Facing an unplanned pregnancy or struggling to support your baby for any reason is nothing to be ashamed of. Many birth mothers may not know that adoption is an option that can provide the best possible life for your baby. Whether you are pregnant or are raising your baby, newborn and infant adoption can be a blessing and a positive experience. It also is important to know that your adoption plan can be unique to you and your baby.

Adoption Choices of Missouri will never pressure you to make a decision in your adoption plan that you do not feel comfortable making. We can offer you a supportive group of individuals to talk with you about your adoption plan without any of the surrounding stigma of adoption. Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 1-816-527-9800

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Can You Give a 1-Year-Old Up for Adoption in Missouri?

October 18, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

Can You Give a 1-Year-Old Up for Adoption in Missouri?

Yes, you can place a 1 year old up for adoption in Missouri and we are local, private adoption agencies that can provide the support you need. It is never too late to choose to place your baby for adoption in Missouri. You deserve the same adoption services, support, and counseling as any other birth mother . And remember, you are giving up! You are choosing to create a Missouri adoption plan for your child – a brave and selfless choice!

Placing a 1 Year Old Up for Adoption

Putting a 1-year-old up for adoption is similar to a newborn or infant adoption. There are a few difference considering at this point, your child has documents that will need transferred such as birth certificates and medical records. But don’t worry! Adoption Choices of Missouri has the experience to help! Many of our professionals have placed a child for adoption or adopted a child. We offer a unique, first-hand level of support and compassion to ensure that your adoption experience is safe and not only are you confident with your decision but it gives you hope for a better future.

How do I Put My 1 Year Old Child Up for Adoption?

If you know that parenting is no longer an option, the Missouri adoption process is possible. While most of Adoption Choices of Missouri adoptions are newborn adoption and we support pregnant women considering adoption, HOWEVER, we can still help if you want to place your toddler for adoption and we have loving, waiting adoptive families. It is never too late to choose adoption. During the adoption process, you will have the same rights and the same control as any mother who is placing her child for adoption. You also deserve the same respect and support! With Adoption Choices of Missouri you will:

Create a Missouri adoption plan
Choose the adoptive family that you think is best for your child
Choose an open, semi-open, or closed adoption
Receive financial assistance
Receive professional counseling and support
Have resources and adoption experts on your side to help every step of the way!

When placing a 1 year old for adoption, there are a few extra steps to the Texas adoption process. You will work with one of our adoption specialists to:

Obtain a copy of your child’s birth certificate
See who is listed as the father on your child’s birth certificate
Provide information about (any) father who has provided child support
Obtain medical records for your child
Provide documentation of where the child has lived from birth to present
Assess who has had custody or care of the child from birth to present
Determine who has provided financial and emotional support for this child from birth to present

With the right adoption agencies in Missouri on your side, the extra steps to give up your child for adoption are not so tiresome and will result in giving your child the best chance at the life she deserves – the life that you want for her!

Choosing Adoption Choices of Missouri to Place Your 1 Year Old for Adoption

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

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How to Create Your Adoption Birth Plan With Adoption Choices of Missouri

October 15, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

How to Create Your Adoption Birth Plan With Adoption Choices of Missouri

This may seem like a really overwhelming and scary time. Besides being pregnant before you planned, you’re considering putting your baby up for adoption, and now someone has reminded you about your birth/hospital plan. What are those, and why is there even more stuff to think about? Breathe! Don’t worry. We’ve got you covered. Adoption Choices of Missouri knows exactly what to do and how to help you.

What Is A Birth Plan?

A birth plan is your plan for how you wish to give birth, such as who is in the delivery room with you, would you like to have a water birth, is your baby being delivered by a midwife? Is there a chance you may need a c-section delivery instead of delivering naturally? You may want to discuss pain management with your practitioner in preparation for your delivery. There is nothing wrong with pain management techniques or drugs during labor when administered by medical professionals; just be sure to consult with your physician.

This can be especially important if you may be allergic to a certain ingredient in a drug or to make sure the drug is in stock and noted in your chart as a possibility of being used during delivery. If you are making your birth plan during your fifth or seventh month and have decided you do not want pain medication during your delivery, this is something you can let your doctor know. This may change during the delivery, but it is something good for the doctor to be aware of your wishes. You can always change your mind about this later on.

These are all things you can discuss with your OB/GYN if you have any concerns or need any help planning ahead of time. Of course, deliveries cannot always be planned to perfection, so know that it’s ok if things don’t go completely according to plan. Just know that whatever happens, you have the support of your medical team, your friends, your family, your child’s adoptive family, and your Adoption Choices of Missouri family.

What To Know When Placing Your Baby Up For Adoption: Hospital Plan

A birth plan concerns your plans for the hospital and the adoption. If you are placing your newborn baby up for adoption, the hospital is probably where your baby will be handed over to their adoptive family. You may decide you do not wish to be at this handoff or that you do wish to be there to say goodbye. You may wish to hold your baby and take some pictures before your baby is handed to their adoptive parents and leaves the hospital, or you may not. These are decisions you can make before your delivery. You can always change your mind about these decisions later on if you so choose.

A hospital plan can also include deciding on what you wish to pack in your bag for the hospital. You may wish to have a change of clothes, some pajamas, maybe something comfortable with easy access during the delivery, and some shampoo and conditioner to clean up after the delivery. You may also want a speaker and a playlist if you wish to have music during the delivery or something you wish to give the baby before they are handed off to their adoptive family.

Missouri Adoption: Pandemic Restrictions

The pandemic may affect who can come to visit you in the hospital and how many individuals may come to represent the adoptive family in the official handoff. Due to these restrictions, you may only be allowed one person by your side in the delivery room, as well. These restrictions can be annoying but are in place to protect everyone from the spread of infection, including your baby and yourself. Your newborn may not be equipped with a proper immune system yet and needs to be protected. In addition, after delivery, you will be in a weakened state and also possibly immunocompromised, so it is best to play it safe for everyone involved.

Post Delivery & Adoption: Postpartum Care

It is also important to note in your hospital plan which will be taking care of yourself post-delivery. Besides the possible emotional and mental ramifications, such as postpartum depression or grief, you may need some help getting around, depending on how difficult your delivery was. For instance, if you have a c-section, that is some major surgery that includes being careful of bending to not disturb the staples in your abdomen. If you have to have stitches or an episiotomy, which we hope you won’t have to worry about, this can make moving and getting up and down painful and difficult.

Even if you have a fairly easy birth, you are still advised not to lift over a certain amount of weight, which could be about ten pounds or so. You may also have to worry about postpartum vaginal care or any bad reactions during postpartum, where you may need to go back to the doctor. If the latter is the case, it is nice to have a friend or family member there to monitor your condition and help you when necessary.

Help If You’re Placing Your Baby Up For Adoption

There are many parts to a birth and hospital plan, including visitors, pain management, information to tell your doctor, postpartum care, and the type of birth you are considering. It’s a lot to think about, but you got this. You’re not alone in any of this. We are here to help you. Now, are you ready to explore your Missouri adoption options with Adoption Choices of Missouri today?

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

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What Services Can Private Adoption Help Me in Missouri?

October 14, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

How Can I Receive Adoption Help in Missouri?

If you are pregnant and considering adoption in Missouri but still have questions about how a private adoption agency can benefit you and your baby, look no further! The Adoption Choices of Missouri have put together great information about how a private adoption can benefit you.

Financial Assistance During Pregnancy

Many women often wonder if they get paid for putting their child up for adoption. In short, the answer is no, but there’s more to the matter. Although you will not get paid for placing your child for adoption, there are opportunities to receive financial support during your pregnancy. The financial support you receive does vary depending on the state you live in. In an adoption in MO, one of the services that private adoption can help you with is providing financial assistance depending on your circumstances.

During your pregnant adoption help, you may have limited resources. Perhaps you are no longer working at the moment. Maybe you have other family members who need your care as well. This is all taken into consideration when determining if you are eligible to receive financial assistance during your Missouri adoption process. Examples of what could be covered with the financial assistance offered are certain living expenses such as rent, utilities, food and groceries, transportation, maternity clothing, etc. If you feel financial assistance is something that can benefit you during your adoption journey, reach out to Adoption Choices of Missouri.

Review Adoptive Parents

As a birth mother, one of the things that may be at the forefront of your mind is who the adoptive parents of your child will be. Thankfully you don’t have to stress and trying to find adoptive parents that will provide a great home and future for your child. When choosing adoption through a private adoption agency, one of the benefits is that your adoption specialist will take the time to discuss the type of adoptive family you want for your child. In this time, you can voice your specific wishes, and your adoption specialist will help find a family that matches those requests.

At Adoption Choices of Missouri, we will help you with just that! We know that your child’s future is something very important to you. We want to help you find the best home and adoptive parents for your baby. To give you a quick glimpse into what this process might look like, here are a few details on what to expect. When looking at prospective adoptive parents, your adoption specialist will show you parent profile books. These profile books are full of pictures, short bios, and information about the family. With those profile books, you have time to look over and review which family do you think would be the best fit for your child. This benefit, offered through private adoption, is a great way to give you peace throughout your adoption journey.

Counseling for Birth Mothers

Adoption can be a very confusing process. You may be experiencing a mix of emotions. Some may even compare it to a roller coaster ride due to the many highs and lows of the process. This may or may not be the case for you. But if you’re finding that the adoption journey is a little more taxing than you expected, don’t worry! One of the many benefits of private adoption is the counseling services provided to birth mothers just like you.

Although not every birth mother feels like they need counseling, many do. There is nothing wrong with feeling like counseling may be right for you or feeling like you can take on the adoption process with no problem. And this time, it’s important to do what is best for you to ensure the health of your baby and yourself. The most important thing that Adoption Choices of Missouri wants you to know is that you’re not alone. It’s a private adoption agency. We have the resources to help you have a successful, happy adoption journey.

Do You Need Adoption Help In Missouri?

If this information was helpful to you, but you still have other questions, adoption choices of Missouri can help you! Our goal is to guide and support you through your adoption journey. This may be through financial assistance, through helping decide on adoptive parents, or through counseling services. We want you to know that at whatever point you are at in your pregnancy, adoption is still an option. It’s never too late to reach out and ask for help. Contact us today!

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

Meet the Author: Natalya Castro is originally from New York but has lived in Florida for most of her life. She is currently working towards earning her bachelor’s degree in marketing at Palm Beach Atlantic University. Most people who know her would say she is outgoing and very extroverted. She is a creative person who loves to express herself through various artistic outlets such as pottery, painting, and cosmetics. When Natalya is not working on her studies, you can find her connecting with others and her loved ones, swimming in the Sunshine State’s beautiful beaches or binging shows from her favorite streaming services. Above all, Natalya is passionate about utilizing creative means to reach people and helping others. Through her writing, she hopes to help others feel supported and cared for during the present journey in their life.

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Counseling and Support Services For Birth Mothers in Missouri

October 13, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

Counseling and Support Services For Birth Mothers in Missouri

Are you experiencing an unplanned pregnancy? Are you worried that you are alone? Do you have a million thoughts running through your mind? Are you looking for pregnant adoption help? Adoption Choices of Missouri wants you to know that you are never alone. We understand what you might be going through, and we want to help. It can be scary, and for new mothers, you might not know what to expect. There might be an overwhelming amount of thoughts and questions in your head right now, and we are here to help answer or alleviate some of your concerns. We understand that putting your baby up for adoption couldn’t have been an easy decision. But, you had to make a decision that was best for you and your baby. We also understand that there can be a lot of overwhelming emotions and that you may need help processing them. Adoption Choices of Missouri can provide counseling and support services for birth mothers who seek help. We can offer a range of different services depending on your needs. Our services include financial support, safe housing, and medical care.

Counseling Options for Birth Mothers

Pregnancy can have a huge impact on a lot of birth mothers emotionally, physically, and financially. We have a wonderful support counseling team that wants to provide you with emotional support. They have worked with hundreds of women who are in a similar position to yours. Our involvement is only as much as you want, but we are here during your pregnancy and post-birth.

There are many types of counseling services that our team can offer. The service you choose should be catered to fit your specific needs. We can provide one-on-one counseling where you can speak confidently to a licensed specialist and receive personal care. We also offer support groups where you can sit with other women who are in the same or similar position to you. Support groups tend to be helpful for those who feel alone throughout their pregnancy and are unsure of what to do next. Hearing from other women can offer a sense of relief that you are doing everything you can. We recommend speaking to a counselor to discover the counseling option best for you.

Financial Support Services for Adoption in Missouri

As mentioned before, pregnancy can put a lot of pressure or stress on birth mothers emotionally and financially. We at Adoption Choices of Missouri want to ensure that you are able to provide and care for yourself during your pregnancy. The specific needs vary from mother to mother. During pregnancy, your health and nutrition are more important than ever, so we can personally offer birth mothers food stamps, WIC, and grocery expenses.

There are other options to receive financial assistance as well. In Missouri, it is possible to receive financial support from the adoptive family. Expenses that could be included are rent and utilities, food, transportation, maternity clothing, phone service, groceries. Again, it can be different for every birth mother as everyone is in a different situation.

Receiving Medical Care and Financial Assistance

As an expectant mother, receiving the best and consistent medical care is very important. If you are in need of financial assistance, Adoption Choices of Missouri can assist birth mothers in applying for Medicaid. We want to ensure you are well taken care of and receiving proper prenatal care. We recommend attending all of your doctor appointments regardless of financial concerns. It is important to be aware of your and your baby’s health and if there are any complications. Speak with one of our counselors if you are unsure or are concerned with how you will be paying for your medical expenses.

Pregnancy can be very draining for a lot of birth mothers. It can put a strain on your mental and physical well-being. We at Adoption Choices of Missouri want nothing but the absolute best for you and your baby. Your decision to put your baby up for adoption in MO cannot be easy, and going through with the pregnancy can be very emotional. We offer services to better your pregnancy journey and create a positive experience. It might be hard not to worry, but we hope we can alleviate some of your stress with our counseling, financial, and medical support services.

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

Meet the Author: Gabriella Dobson was born and raised in Ohio. She is currently a senior at Miami University majoring in professional writing with a focus in editing. She also minors in criminology and general business. She is a skilled barista and enjoys sipping her coffee with a good book in her hand. She is passionate about helping others and making a difference in the lives around her. With her involvement in St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital and Women Helping Women, she is able to provide resources for those in need of support.

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The Adoption Process in MO Is A Wonderful Experience

October 11, 2021 Adoption Choices of Missouri

The Adoption Process in MO Is A Wonderful Experience

The adoption process in MO is a wonderful experience and a rewarding one. You get to ensure that your unborn baby has a bright future. Here at Adoption Choices of Missouri, we are here to help guide you and support you throughout your pregnant adoption journey. Our staff will help guide you in creating your adoption plan as well as support you throughout the process and your pregnancy, especially when it comes to your pregnancy care.

Why Is Pregnancy Care So Important?

While there are many important things about the adoption process in MO, you also have to keep in mind that pregnancy care is also a very important part of your adoption journey in MO. Your health and your unborn baby’s health are very important, and our staff here at Adoption Choices of Missouri are prepared to help you with your pregnancy care. Your pregnancy care is very important for you, your baby, and the adoption process. You want to make sure that you are as healthy as you can be during your pregnancy, so your baby is also healthy as can be so you can avoid any complications with your pregnancy and any birth defects.

Pregnancy Care, Do Not Do Drugs, Smoke, And Drink Alcohol

During your pregnancy care, it is important that you stay away from drugs, do not smoke, and do not drink any alcohol. Doing these things can cause complications with your pregnancy and can cause birth defects to your baby. Here at Adoption Choices of Missouri, we know that trying to quit any of these cold-turkey can be very difficult. We are prepared and ready to help you in any way we can. We offer free counseling to you, and you can schedule an appointment at any time. We can help you figure out a way that works for you to quit any of these habits. Again your health and your baby’s health are very important to us.

Nutrition Is A Very Important Part Of Your Pregnancy Care

Another part of your pregnancy care that is very important is your nutrition. Nutrition is part of the pregnancy care process that can be overlooked sometimes due to pregnancy cravings. Now you do not have to avoid your cravings altogether. It is important to have a good and well-balanced diet. Here at Adoption Choices of Missouri, we can help you find a caring and affordable doctor to help you with your pregnancy care and your nutrition. They can prescribe you prenatal vitamins that will help you get the nutrients that you need. It is important to let your doctor know if the brand of prenatal vitamins you are making you feel sick. Letting your doctor know this will allow them to switch your prenatal vitamins to a brand that works for you.

Exercising Is Just As Important As Nutrition

When it comes to exercising during your unplanned pregnancy, there is more that you have to watch for. It is important to still get exercise during your pregnancy, but you have to listen to your body and doctor on when to stop. You do not want to push yourself too hard, or else you can cause complications with your pregnancy. Trying to figure out what exercises to do for your pregnancy care is not as complicated. You mainly want to stick to the exercise that your body is used to. For instance, if you are a runner, then you can continue to run for exercise until your body tells you to stop or your doctor tells you to. If you are not a runner, then do not try to go for runs since your body is not used to running. You can continue to do exercises that you are used to until your body tells you to stop or your doctor does so, as mentioned before. It is very important that you listen to your body and doctor to avoid any complications with your pregnancy.

Adoption Choices of Missouri Is Here For You

Our staff are more than ready and prepared to help you with your pregnancy care in any way that we can. Here at Adoption Choices of Missouri, we are here to help you with your pregnancy care, from finding you a caring and affordable doctor to helping you stop any bad habits that can be harmful to your health and your baby’s health.

Adoption Choices of Missouri serves birth parents statewide and beyond, please call us or text us to learn more! Call us toll-free at 877-903-4488 or, in Missouri call or text us at 816-527-9800

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